MPaige

A coworker said a man came in and left a package for me; it turned out to be a note and a CD. The note said something like when I see you I instantly get butterfly's you're so beautiful..blah blah blah I wrote you a song hope you like it. I listened to the song and it was actually really good. My mom was like in tears because she was so excited for me lol. Anyway he left his number and everyone was telling me to txt him, so I did. Turns out he's a 26 year old guy but I'm only 18. I feel like I look my age so he must have had an idea on how young I am. I asked him to send me a picture of him and he is super attractive. He wants to take me on a date but the place he wants to take me is in Newport Beach and that's like and hour and half away from us. I kind of feel a little weird about the whole thing, like it's fake. And I feel like he is a little to old. Should I just go for it? Or is it to creepy?

So I met my best friend 3 years ago in out theatre class, I saw him and immanently thought he was really attractive. We talked and went on a date and after like a month of knowing him he asked my to be his girlfriend. Right after he asked me he just started to ignore me and we broke up; but stayed friends. We both had new relationships after this and we just became really close friends (best friends). Last year I started to feel like I like him more than friends. I couldn't get him out of my head, every love song reminded me of him, no other guy compared.. blah blah you know when you start liking some one how it goes. Anyway, I didn't want to tell him because I didn't want him to leave/ignore me. I tried everything I could to just stop liking him and get on with my life but the more I tried the stronger my feelings grew. Now a year later I am 100% positive I am in love with him. I have said no to dates with really attractive/ great guys just because I love my best friend so much.

Sadly, a few months ago he moved to New York...but the night before he moved he kissed me. I had no idea he would even want to do that before then! I feel like he might feel the same way but apart of me just feels like he did it for no reason. Should I tell him my feelings or is it too late??

My friend has had this crush on this guy since new years 2013. They have sex a lot but he is a jerk to her. For example he will say things like "you mean a lot to me" than the next day he will say "we can't talk anymore." but as soon as he wants to have sex he will call her and say that he was wrong and that he likes her. This is obviously him just trying to get her in bed. And recently he has even been flirting with me! and telling me that I mean a lot to him. I told him to **** off but he still tries to talk to me. My friend told me that a few days ago he asked her to be his girlfriend, she has been waiting for him to ask for a long time. After he asked, they of course had sex, and the next day he broke up with her saying that she "means nothing to him." I told her she needs to cut him out of her life and she is better than him. she agreed with me and deleted him of of Facebook and said she will never talk to him again. But she just called me saying that she spent the night at his house last night because "what was I supposed to do? he called me." Im starting to get really irritated with her, but because I love her and watching her do this to herself is killing me. So how do I convince her that he will never change and that she needs to move on?

First of all I'm a girl and my best friend is a guy. Most of the times the things he says or does make me feel like he doesn't want to be my friend. For example, he is going thousands of miles away for college and his mom asked if we were going to keep talking and he said "she wouldn't let me stop talking to her, even if I tried." Or I always invite him places or ask to hang out, he says yes, but he never asks me to hang out. He will ask his other friends right in-front of me to do something, than look at me and say something along the lines of "I guess you can come too since you are here." the list of things he says can go on and on...I asked him if he cared about me one day and he said of course, I love you, but I can't seem to believe him.

Also to complicate things, I love him more than a friend, we actually dated before we became friends. I think I started to feel stronger feelings towards him because he is the only person I consider to be my real friend. I have a lot of self esteem issues and I'm diagnosed with depression, so all of this could just be in my head, that's why I wanted to ask him or tell him about it. I'm not going to tell him about how I love him more than a friend, I think that would just make him resent me, which I don't want.