anonymous

I recently traveled for work to Fremont, CA, which is between San Jose and San Francisco. I enjoyed the weather and how nice all of the drivers were (especially in the city). Now I'm considering moving there. I'd like to know if anyone recently thought about moving to California (especially that area) and why, or why you didn't move. Did you perform any financial analyses? Are there any site that you'd recommend I check out for someone who's thinking about moving there? No sarcasm, please.

My fiance has asthma and recently we both began exercizing together. After a long hike at a strong pace, she began to complain that her asthma was bothering her. I also have asthma, but it is not excercize induced. So I am wondering if she is really experiencing asthma symptoms or just out-of-breatheness that comes with starting an exercize regimen.

I myself have had breathing problems after a strenuous workout, but overcame them by getting in shape, so it's difficult for me to gauge whether or not what she is experiencing is asthma.

I recently got engaged to a wonderful girl who just moved back home for the summer and has a bipolar mother. She and my fiance constantly argue. Her mother is a pack-rat and never cleans. Her hobbies include rummaging through our garbage and opening my fiance's mail.

While I love my fiance, and the rest of her family is pleasant, I feel that my life would be much better if we broke off contact with her mother.

Any suggestions?