Sofie

Recently, I stopped being friends with a guy. Let's call him Lee. I really enjoyed being friends with him. However, he was coming between me and my boyfriend. He kept flirting with me and asking for a chance. I would tell him no, but he kept insisting. He even asked me to have sex with him. I was shocked and I got triggered at that point so I blocked him on social media and stopped talking to him completely. He wasn't like that during the two years of our friendship, it was only recent. I saw Lee today while I was in a car adventure with my boyfriend. I broke down and as I'm writing this, I still feel sad. I don't know what to do. I don't know how to move on. Any advice is appreciated.

The guy I thought was my boyfriend, wasn't actually my boyfriend. Although he asked me to be his girlfriend, he has another girl as his profile cover on fb. He asked me 2 months before putting up the picture. He says she's the love of his life. So I'm guessing I'm not his girlfriend anymore. The thing is I'm upset that he didn't tell me anything. I'm upset that he did that to me. I don't understand why. When we first met, it was last year in high school. I was a senior while he was freshman. He's now 17 and I'm 19. I helped him get to his classes and I let him sit with me and my friends. I treated him as a friend. So when he asked me to be his gf, I accepted thinking that he was the innocent looking guy I met before. So that's why I have a hard time moving on. I'm still in shock and I don't know what to do...

I feel so humiliated at the moment. My boyfriend recently posted on his facebook story, "no matter how far you are, I'll still love you". I saw it and realized that there were initials included. It was his and a different person's. I'm guessing it's another girl. So I was hurt by that. And today we were supposed to hang out but he couldn't make it because he had a hangover. I knew that was going to happen so I prepared myself for it. Even so, I still feel terrible. I had a feeling that he was going to do something like this because he was distant since the moment he asked me to be his girlfriend. I thought it was my imagination because he works and is often offline. The thing is I'm still in shock and I don't want to do anything at the moment. I cherish the memory of when we first met and I don't want to taint that memory. I don't feel like talking to him at the moment so I've been trying to distract myself. But it's just so humiliating that he asked me to be his girlfriend yet he loves another girl. What should I do?

So I have a boyfriend and we started dating at the beginning of May. Actually, I don't even know if he's my boyfriend to begin with. He said he wanted to meet up to make our relationship official, or something, but we never did. He is 2 years younger than me (he's 17 and I'm 19) and we haven't seen each other since I graduated high school, which was last year. He rarely texts me and when he does, he acts as if almost a month of no communication has never happened. He used to do that when we were friends and because we were friends I wouldn't question it. But now that we're dating, in my opinion, it's different. He shares a lot of videos with sad love songs, like heartbreak, on facebook. This makes me so confused. I don't want to jump to conclusions so I haven't done anything yet.

I told this guy that I began dating, to take things slow after a day of dating. He said we were going to talk about it but we never did. He thought I broke up with him. All I said was that we should take things slow. But it's also my fault for not clearing up the misunderstanding. It's been 3 weeks since I last talked to him. I feel confused because my friends want me to talk to him about the situation but I don't want to, but at the same time I do. I have no idea what to do, how to feel or what to think. Today, I saw him with a girl and I felt upset about it. I know I shouldn't because I still haven't figured out how exactly to feel about him. And I have been ignoring him for quite some time because I feel guilty about how I feel. So what exactly should I do? I feel like I should just leave the situation alone and just forget about him.

My friend and I aren't in the bestest terms at the moment. However, he recently bought me a book and told my best friend to give it to me. I would have much appreciated if my friend gave me the book himself. I want to receive it but at the same time, I don't. So what should I do?

After such a long time of being single, I finally have a boyfriend. I met him a week ago, which I now realize that it's too soon to date him. Anyway, he asked me out and I accepted. So now we're in a relationship. He already tells me that he loves me and that I make him very happy. That was yesterday. Today, I told him that I feel like it's too soon to be dating and that we should take things slow. However, what I didn't tell him was that, I don't want to be in a relationship with him. Like I do want to be in a relationship but at the same time I don't. I guess I just find it weird that I now have a boyfriend after years of being single. I do want to give him a chance but I'm not ready yet, I guess. I don't know what to do. Especially since he already told his parents, friends and co-workers about me.

I feel guilty every time I think of my friend. We've known each other for 5 years now and recently, I've come to like him as more than a friend. It felt nice at first but what I feared came true. Whenever I like someone, I usually end up hating them and wanting to avoid them for no reason. You see, I consider my friend to be one of those friends whom you don't want to ever lose. He's really special to me. So when I began to like him, I thought that it would be different but it wasn't. I've started to dislike him even though I like him. I feel extremely guilty and sad every time I see him. I know I am the problem and not him. But I haven't found the source yet. What should I do? Should I tell him how I feel or not?

So I'm a senior in high school. Recently, I've been having thoughts that maybe I might have feelings for one of my Junior friends. I have been debating to myself if I should confess to him and invite him to prom. I ended up making up my mind that I should do it. But the problem is that I just found out that I'm moving away. Which means that I might not see him nor any of my friends again. So now I don't know what to do. Should I still confess or should I not?

I sent a friend request to someone a couple of months ago. They declined it and the Add Friend button disappeared. I haven't thought about it ever since. But recently, I was curious about it and I checked their profile. The Add Friend button was there. I thought that once you send a request and they decline it, you can't see the button anymore. So did it appear again cause the person changed a setting or was it because Facebook had something to do with it?

I have been dating my boyfriend for a couple of months now. He's 16 and I'm 15. He's my first boyfriend. We haven't kissed or made any physical stuff together yet. We already said "I love you" to each other. I have always loved him but recently I've been having doubts about our relationship. I recently met this guy about two weeks ago. I'm beginning to think that I may have feelings for this new guy. But I keep trying to deny it. I keep trying to say to myself that it's not love, it's just that I wish to see my boyfriend and do what regular couples do, but we can't. My parents aren't exactly fond of him. There's something about the new guy that makes me fall for him. But I have a plan that I really need advice on. I'm planning to tell the new guy about my feelings towards him. If he rejects me, it'll be better for me because then I wouldn't have to decide between the two anymore. But if he says he likes me too, I don't know what to do then. What should I do? Should I take action on my plan or not?