Am I wrong for saying no to someone at work who always ask to use my lip gloss?
I have been working at my part time job for a year and this other employee always ask to use some of my lip gloss. She squeezes out some on her finger. She has her own in her locker but always ask for mine. When I said no she got upset. Should I feel bad for saying no?
2006-03-10T16:37:18Z
I was going to buy her one but I feel she has used mine so much that she should buy me one.
2006-03-10T16:41:58Z
We are not good friends. She has been asking to use every since I have been working there.
Anonymous2006-03-10T16:27:26Z
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You are 100 % right. You don't wanna get cold sore or herpes from her
If you and her are good friends or like each other then i think its ok. Its possible that she doesn't have a lot of money to buy hers again so she asks to borrow yours but then again since she gets upset when you say no then she must have a problem, in that case if I were you I wouldn't feel bad but I try to find out why she cant use her own.
don't let her take advantage of you. and you shouldn't be feel bad for saying no to someone who tries to take advantage of you. i don't care if it's just a single lip gloss. if she's going to get upset with you over that stupid reason, let her be. i once met some gay dude who always bugging me for some lip gloss..lol yes that was extremely gross..anyways..next time she asks for it..just tell her that you don't feel like sharing your lip gloss to anyone and ask her why won't she use her own cos you saw there's one in her locker.
I am a very generous and giving person BUT I will not share a toothbrush, panties, or lip gloss. So many diseases are spread that way...I barely let my daughter use my gloss/lipstick. If that weren't reason enough, let her buy her own stuff...how rude to keep asking you to use yours (especially if you aren't good friends). I have let my friends use my gloss or lipstick before but...then it belongs to them and I go buy myself new stuff.
no you shouldn't feel bad at all. she needs to get her own lipgloss out of her locker or go buy another one of the same kind you have if she likes it so much. talk about junior high!