when a woman allows you to grope her breasts on the first date?
Can a relationship form when there is first an intense sexual attraction? There is great conversation and lots in common too, but when we see each other, I can only think about how it's gonna be to "get with him" if you know what I mean...
Do you, as a man, think that, based on all that I have mentioned, a relationship can form from what we have now?
Keep it real, please!
Sizzzler
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Absolutely ! You've described a very common start to most relationships. However, the extras like things in common and good conversations are added bonuses that should bode well for your future.
mr d
tan29tan, i can testify to what you are saying. do not let society stereotype what your heart feels. if you feel that attraction to him its your choice to act upon it. its possible that this sexual attraction is something to build on but if you make it all based on sex it will vanish right before your eyes. it fine to be sexually attracted to someone but that's only a brief thrill you have to consider if you'll personalities will be able to merge in a relationship not just in bed. there is 2 kinds of men: one who is real with himself and will not use another person's weakness for his positive gain and there is the other types that does not mind hurting people at whomever cost. so be wise in making those type of decisions because sometimes they can come back an bite u on the ***...
Anonymous
Well I know I'm not a man but stick with me. My boyfriend and I had an intense physical attraction to begin with, the strongest I've ever felt. We just had our one year anniversary.
sobrien
uh, yeah, thats what relationships are about. as long as you can have a good conversation, then the sexual stuff is just an added bonus. or vice-versa . plus if you are anticipating how it will be to get intimate with him, then he obviously has your interest, and a good sex life makes for a good foundation for a good relationship.
Doug
Anything is possible, but if all you want to do is get with him, why not do that and not complicate it by trying to make it into something it's not. Why not just see where it goes, and if something comes out of it, good for you. If something doesn't come from it, then you had fun, learned something about yourself, and move on.