Forbidden attraction?
With all the bible thumpers and god fearing people i doubt i will get answers. but here it goes? Has anyone found themselves attracted to someone who is either 15 years plus older or younger than themselves?
With all the bible thumpers and god fearing people i doubt i will get answers. but here it goes? Has anyone found themselves attracted to someone who is either 15 years plus older or younger than themselves?
Anonymous
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Sure ... and it worked out great. Don't worry too much about age differences. You should be more concerned about whether the two of you match up well in interests, whether you both know how to share in a relationship, and how you feel about each other.
Forget those people who will judge on appearances alone. They are sad characters, indeed.
If you and this person are happy together and you believe it would be a great relationship if you were the same age ... then it's got a good chance to be a good one with the age difference.
Don't conduct your life according to other people's opinions on how you should live ... be yourself and to yourself be true.
Good luck!
lovpayne
When I was in 6th grade I got a new teacher who was 22. She was HOT AS HEck. I was extreemly attracted to this woman. she'd be 38, Ok I guess she really wasn't that much older than me. only about 9 years.
I will tell you that there is nothing wrong with knowing someone younger than youreself is attractive. If underage you better keep your hands off. but not much further than 60 or so years ago girls were being married as young as 14 yrs old. and to 30 and 40 something men. and they are some of your great grandparents and grandparents. How else can you have an 80 yr old grandpa and a 65 yr old grandmother... do the math. Your grandpa was getting hummers behind the barn when grandma was born.
Michelle M
Oh yeah. I had a huge crush on a colleague who was almost 20 years my senior. He was intelligent, witty, handsome, and had a butt that refused to quit. We flirted shamelessly, but never did anything more (I follow the "don't crap where you eat" policy). Neither of us was married or in a relationship.
Wait a minute, I did get married (not my current husband), and I still kept my crush on the other guy. Hmm...
Anonymous
All the time. I prefer women much younger than me. All my relationships have been with younger women and I could care less what others think of that except for the one I'm involved with. If she's happy then screw what others think.
True
I liked a guy who was 17 years older then me. It was "forbidden" since he was a client.