How to forget ex-boyfriend that i should forget?

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Ceasing contact with him for the time being would be a good start.

Not doing that is like a child who keeps on complaining of burns but doesn't stop touching the stove.

The rest will just take time. Just keep yourself busy and active and productive. Living in the past and reminiscing will only serve to make you miserable....Show more

It is my opinion that you get three chances at true love. This is only your first love. Let him go, if it was meant to be you'll cross paths again. In the mean time, move on and start looking for number two. Heartbreak is part of growing up. It hurts in the begining, but anything worth while always does. It will only make you a better lover in the end....Show more

This mentality in post-breakup is going to tear you apart. You must have justified the break-up so now you must face the fact that the world is ruthless and it can take its toll on those that are strong enough to survive. If you have feelings for someone then follow them and if you want to get over him, give him some room and back off. Approaching the one you love intimately will only harm you....Show more

I am having the same problem, my husband (I was with him 9 years) ran off with another woman. The thing that is helping me forget is staying busy and looking for new prospective relationships. Keeping busy helps me not think about it. In time I won't feel the loss as much or at all!...Show more

Sometimes it is hard to let go of someone. You need to think about if you really love him or not. A lot of the time people think that they want to be with someone just because they don't have them anymore. If he said a lot of mean stuff to you just try to think about that a lot to help you get over him....Show more