Why do I continue to have anything to do with her, when She causes me so much pain?

2007-01-25T20:42:12Z

I think the reason why I am in so much pain is because, I'm the suspicious type. I'm young ( quite young, yes, 13 [ don't say it can't be love at that age ] )... One little thing will fill my mind with every possible scenario that could be happening, so perhaps, a better question would be... How do I stop this from happening? How can I make myself less suspecting of heart break? I'm a strong person ( I know, but I'm not trying to brag ) and I've proved it to many people, but when it comes to this person, she is about the only one who can break my spirit.

2007-01-25T20:47:39Z

I think the reason why I am in so much pain is because, I'm the suspicious type. I'm young ( quite young, yes, 13 [ don't say it can't be love at that age ] )... One little thing will fill my mind with every possible scenario that could be happening, so perhaps, a better question would be... How do I stop this from happening? How can I make myself less suspecting of heart break? I'm a strong person ( I know, but I'm not trying to brag ) and I've proved it to many people, but when it comes to this person, she is about the only one who can break my spirit.

( And... I'm Agnostic... Don't come after me with god and the bible, please. )

Anonymous2007-01-25T20:36:06Z

Favorite Answer

Cause you are in love with her. And since you can't bring yourself to tell her you let her walk all over you...and then you think you deserve it. You'll think she'll like you if you let her push you around. It doesn't work like that .. she will think you don't have a spine.. Stand out to her tell her enough is enough

You'll thank me later man...

10

southerner472007-01-25T20:37:14Z

man, that sounds familiar. Untill mid-2,002 , i was henpecked , whipped , after living with my very abusive wife of 14 years. Manic depressant she is.,.and was, She thought it to be "excusable" to be hateful and vile to me and our 2 special needs kids. It's like they are on a mad-power trip- 24-7 PMS. I dont wnt to hear from anyone that, says' did you try to understand HER needs"? YOU dont have to take any abuse from her just as no one should take abuse from anyone else.

00

luckystar2007-01-25T20:37:55Z

because you love her that why, but if she cause you unhappyness then it time to let go, a realtionship that feel
with pain etc is not a good one. time to find peace and that
may mean let go, it may be hard. but you should come first
your peace of mind.

00

Anonymous2007-01-25T20:42:49Z

why would god leave you when you cause him so much pain. he wont, but he wont tolerate your crap either, don't abandon them but don't tolerate their irrational behavior. parents should be gods(not literally) to their children. my father was my hero.

00

John L2007-01-25T20:30:25Z

Because that's what you think you deserve.

00
Show more answers (1)

Related Questions

What might be causing this continuing stomach pain?Why do people answer questions only to cause pain?What are some good reasons not to doubt others who already caused much pain?What is causing my back pain?Dental work causing pain. Normal?

Trending Questions

Am I Wrong?8 answersMy adult son doesn’t want kids help?7 answersBreasts are made up of adipose tissue, which is just a fancy clinical term for fat cells. So why do men get all gaga over playing with fat?11 answersIf you were to go back in time, would you still decide to date your current partner?10 answersHow do I stop someone from constantly looking up my skirt?4 answers