i can't control my anger..?

i was used to be cool.
but after having a boyfriend, it changed a lot. now it's very easy to make me angry.
i tried to control it and it works, but not to him.
i still can tolerate anybody else who makes me angry. but if my lovely boyfriend does, i could get into my monster level.
it's really annoying because while in anger i just can't think rationally. i just want to hurt him, hurt him, and hurt him. after that, i feel really satisfied.
what's wrong with me? i love him very much, and he still keep along with me however i'm beast.

juamps2007-01-26T19:31:24Z

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I used to be really angry and destructive, but when I first attended to a Dharma class it was about anger... From that point I learned the reasons why it´s really really really bad to become angry (under any circumstance), and it really changed my attitude towards others and myself.
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GO BENGALS2007-01-26T19:38:32Z

Theres no one person in this world to tell you how to stop being angry. Maybe if your bothered by it that much, try carrying around a little stress ball. Those help ALOT. Good Luck.

Anonymous2016-03-29T08:21:36Z

My anger controls me.

Culinary2007-01-26T19:27:01Z

It could be he's not the man for you or maybe he said somehting to get you mad. maybe you should take a break.

?2007-01-26T19:41:47Z

YOU ARE SO USE TO WHAT HE HAS DONE TO YOU , THATS WHAT YOU ARE USED TO.. I RECOMMEND YOU MOVE ON , CAUSE YOU COULD VERY EASILY DO , SOMETHING YOU MAY REGRET.

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