I would like to know how a divorced 38 year old mom of one grown son gets back into the dating world? 10y out?

I find the dating world impossible today. I have been divorced for 10 years and devoted to raising my son. Now that he is grown I am ready to explore dating. The dating world is very different compared to 20 years ago. My two experience have been painful and alarming. I am sincere and honestly seeking someone who would like to spend quality time together. I am a homeowner, college degreed and intelligent woman. Why is it so hard for me to find LOVE?

jaikumaar62007-01-30T05:58:18Z

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in love age doesnt matter its the attitude which makes love to blossom keep trying you will meet the mr right

declaude2007-01-30T08:39:51Z

Because you're looking for it. I'm a 37 year old mom with an 18 year old son. Granted, I've been with my b/f for 7 years now, but I wasn't looking for "love". Go with the flow and enjoy your life right now. Don't go rushing into finding "love" again. You've just spent all these years married and raising a child. Time to have fun and enjoy what the world has to offer you. Love will find you when you least expect it. It always does. Good luck!!!

elite_women_rule_the_rock2007-01-30T05:48:01Z

i did it after 8 yrs
i was alone with a growing son and he came first for yrs and yrs

i went out had fun and met mr right
i was not looking it just happened now i have met my soulmate and love of my life

go out have fun get hobbies go to a game or concert and you will find it

Anonymous2007-01-30T05:51:36Z

Let me just tell you, it is hard! You have to "put yourself out there". Give your friends and co-workers subtle hints that you are "looking", they may just set you up with someone great. Also try dating sites....

snjl672007-01-30T05:50:57Z

I am 40 and it gets harder and harder the older we get, sorry this doesn't help much, I recommend just getting out there and being yourself, and not looking too hard, and eventually it will just happen

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