Should i leave my wife?
Been married for 5 years? 1 kid...3 yrs old. Never really been married. Got married for the wrong reasons. Do i stay and be miserable? Or do I leave respectfuly and try to find happiness elsewhere?
Been married for 5 years? 1 kid...3 yrs old. Never really been married. Got married for the wrong reasons. Do i stay and be miserable? Or do I leave respectfuly and try to find happiness elsewhere?
Anonymous
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why in the world would you ask us this question? That makes no sense what so ever. This is your decision, but I will bet that your wife is no happier...perhaps it is time to sit down and have a good talk. You may find she wants out also. Good luck
autumn0253
Anyone that has ever been married has wanted to get out of it at some point. Take it from someone that is going thru a divorce-the grass is not always greener on the other side. Marriage is hard work. You owe it to each other to at least give it 100% and seek counseling. It takes 2 to make a marriage work and 2 to make it fail-no matter what the issue. You don't want to end up regretting that you did not try harder.
swtlilblonde31
You do everything you can to make it work, because you have a child. If you were so miserable and married for the wrong reasons what stopped you from leaving for the first two years of the marriage?
Me777
You should think hard and wise . If you are serious about this then you should make arrangements to be sure you have a place to stay and it is stable . Don't jump into a relationship so quickly . I think you should get her a I'm a sorry card and express how you feel and tell her you aren't as strong as you thought you were and to forgive you for giving up , but you need to be happy . Make sure your child understands that you will be leaving but you love him and you are sorry and you will be there no matter what . Make sure you do not forget to tell her thank you for being there for you and giving you a son . Let her know you love her but your not in love and your not happy . GOOD LUCK !!! You would be better off making yourself happy first before you love anyone else .
joe
I am facing the same thing. I am getting divorced. I married for the wrong reasons as well. 3 kids and 14 years latter we are going our separate ways. How I wish I had done it sooner. Respectfully talk to your wife and agree on joint custody of your child, he will still need both of you no matter what. The simpler the divorce the better. Good luck.