Ok.. I'm like... I guess I could say I'm obsessing over the guy I like. I can't stop thinking about him. Yes I love him alot but its like... It's hard for me to stop thinking about him.... I feel like, if things end between me and him I'll just break down completely. Right now things are going good. But im worried about later on.. What should i do?
Triathlete88
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You're worrying about what might happen after a long long time. If ever.
Just enjoy it, if it doesn't work out in the end and you did your best then it just wasn't meant to be. You'll get over it.
You'll just have to find your Romeo.
I know this sounds sort of typical and not very helpful, but it's the truth...and really the best I can do.
Good luck!
Don't worry, be happy!
Anonymous
Relationships are strange things. I can only talk from my experience but the even if you like someone that much - try not show it too Early in the relationship. I am happily married to a great guy and it happened because I did not want a relationship at the time I met him, its a strange thing people are scared off if you like them too much, too Early. Play it cool and realize however much you like him - if it doesn't work out you will survive and be better and stronger.
becky
My friend HAD the same problem, she is in love with this guy, and he dumped her because she was joking around and said that she want going to the dinner dance w/ him at our school, but now there back together. so i guess I'm saying that guys like to be obsessed over (btw, my friend is obsessed w/ him) so keep doing what your doing.
dfs_berthies
First you need to relax. Guys aren't everything. You need to know that if, and when things end, you need to take care of yourself. Enjoy what life brings you. You can't stay obsessed over a guy, cuz then that's all what your life is gonna be about. You need to live your life and be happy. Don't let this guy take over your life. There's plenty of other fish in the sea.
krazy&sweet
wel i honestly think ur just in love. and u shouldnt worry about later u should worry bout wuts now! if its doing good now den jst make sure it stays dat way. im sure it will do good later too. u should worry if u start having problems.