How can one become ready for a relationship?

I am constanlty being told that I am immature and not ready for a relationship because I don`t know what to say and how to behave... None helps me by saying that...

In order for someone to be ready needs to be in love and make a relationship in order to have an experience of how he or she should behave.

I don`t know what to think... I cry all the time, the pain is so deep I am thinking of giving up...

sweet pea2007-04-13T18:46:54Z

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I'm sorry to hear that you're in so much pain! Don't give up! I don't know your age - I'm 40 & have been thru many relationships/break-ups, etc., in my lifetime. The best relationships I had were with guys who were friends & I was just happy with myself & not looking for anything more than a friendship.

Just be yourself, do what makes you happy, and you'll find someone who loves you for you when you least expect it! Good luck, hun!

dvas11472007-04-14T01:40:52Z

Act like a person you would want to date.

If you want a mate who does and says silly things, keep saying and doing silly things.

If you want a mate that cares for you, care for other people.

If you want a skinny mate, lose some weight.

Whatever. The trick is to become the person you want to be with.