Don't lie. Tell all the guys out there the truth. When you say you don't feel that "we" have chemistry, its just a nice way of saying "you're ugly, I'm not into you." A lot of guys out here need to hear this. CONFESS!
2007-06-16T03:41:59Z
When people have "chemistry" it means they get along well. They are able to interact on a level that is easier than others. You have good conversation. You like a lot of the same things. Your personalities don't clash. However, lately, I have been hearing more and more women use this as an excuse to tell guys that they don't find them attractive externally. So, why use the term "chemistry"? It's false and misleading.
SimplyMe2007-06-23T21:53:25Z
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Hmm... this is difficult to answer, because "chemistry" could mean one thing to one person and another thing to someone else... but for ME, I'd say that chemistry is just being able to be yourself around that person without worrying what everyone else is thinking. Chemistry is being able to have conversations about shared likes and dislikes, wants and needs... Chemistry is about that "little something" that women/men feel towards the other person... that spark, that instant attraction. Of course, it goes towards the romantic side, too. You have to feel a connection with someone romantically or it will just... fall apart. If there's no passion, no desire, then there's really no relationship.
No to me chemistry is the feelings btwn. 2 pple. if someone said to u "we don't have enough "chemistry"" it means someone isn't holding up there end and they don't want to hold it up 4 them. Yes there r other basic things "chemistry" means but that is not all, look when a girl finds a guy she really likes- u will have lots of "Chemistry" ; )
a part of chemistry is being phiscally attracted to that person. if u are not then it take a lot longer to view them in that light and a lot more conversation. attraction or chemistry has a lot to do with the brain. if someone is phiscally attractive its easier to view urself with them and get in that mind set then with someone thats not as atractive. so girls arent lying when they say there's no chemistry.
I disagree. When I refer to "chemistry" I mean that magical spark between two people that ignite. It's when hearts connect, and there is a closeness between two people. It doesn't always happen and when it does, it is something to treasure.
I can't speak for other women, but for me, it has nothing to do with looks. The key word here is HEART.