When ending a long term relationship...?
...one person will ofter say "You were never there for me". What they may be forgetting is that sometime in the past they had told that very same person, "Don't go there". So how can they blame the person for not being there when they themselves had issued specific instructions not to go there in the first place?
it's a rhetorical question, i was just seeing if anyone would laugh at my brain droppings.