crossdressing / Gay?
of late I've had gay feelings along with crossdressing. So here is the question, what are some of the best ways to crossdress and to come out of the closet
of late I've had gay feelings along with crossdressing. So here is the question, what are some of the best ways to crossdress and to come out of the closet
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Only you can answer that, hon; but when the time is right, you'll figure it out.
Good luck :)
Anonymous
Crossdressers are very, very well known all over America to be 98% straight heterosexual -- they have virtually no interest in same sex relationships whether male or female. Those who have that interest are few and those that actually have those relationships are still fewer. But that doesn't mean they aren't human beings. The are the most human of all beings...
The best way to come out as a crossdresser is by semi-crossdressing at first in public, then deciding if you wish to take it further. For me, I'm only interested in skirts, I never wanted to dress up fully in public and female to male crossdressers can be the same or they may dress fully as they wish. I dress up in denim skirts at thigh to knee length with male tops such as polo shirts or button down shirts.
But, wear of the wardrobe depends and differs widely from person to person depending upon personal tastes -- it is not a society drive thing, mostly because gender neutral dress codes are not yet common except at the most major league corporations around the USA and Britain and Japan -- the person his or herself determines what they like and nothing influences them, not even their best friends. It depends upon that person and that person alone -- no amount of influence whether religio-political or otherwise is ever going to change that.
Crossdressing is not something people do on a whim, it's an urge and a personal journey in a world full of ignorance and prejudice which drives some of us to explore, to get out there and learn and experience what our TRUE gender really is whether we are male or female by birth. To discover that you are female or male brained or that you are transgender because you like clothing and associate your own gender with it personally doesn't make you or anyone else you've ever interacted with or will ever interact with ever, gay at all...
.... it makes you more human than most.
The world is changing...change with it or you will be left behind...
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98% of crossdressers are ZERO percent gay -- proven FACT. If cross dressers were to appear in the workplace today, they would most likely go unopposed even accepted, because society here in America is changing veru rapidly to accept people of other walks of life other than their own. Cross dressing doesn't make you gay nor does it make you or your lover weird, even if you're male or a female going with "her". It is just simply a choice in the realm of many choices and possible genders. Believe it or not, many, many of the people, your friends and colleagues around you right now who are transgendered, but they'd never admit it up front. They are a closed part of society, because in our society, a very small, slim, token group of uneducated portion of our highly evolved society -- an extremist fringe element of American society both male and female -- whom can't accept people who might be different from them. They have no experience, no education and are ignorant of the fact that there are far more genders than just male or female. So, if as a male you wear pantyhose and knowingly showed it in public whether you're wearing jeans, shorts or even a feminine skirt, virtually no one would say anything, anywhere nowadays. Try it and find out they hard way and mark my word, no one will say anything to you at all. Cross dressing also opens people's minds to bigger possibilities. Cross dressing is acceptable for women. Men should and can cross dress. It doesn't mean they're replacing or threatening you as a woman or a man or competing for their status or taking the other men, their gender or femininity. It just means there are more choices out there for those open minded enough to realize and understand there are more than two genders. It's hard wired into one's brain and genes. Get used to it. Don't try to change what is impossible to change. Accept it and evolve as humans being...
Anonymous
The best way is for you to figure out the best way for yourself. The best way for one person could end up being the worst for you.
selena d
Just come out and do it.