Totally confused...please help me?

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Ok...very long story short i was with a guy "paul" for about a year and we were very much in love.  a couple weeks ago we break up because he says he can't "give to me what i deserve right now". i take that as he still cares about me as much as i do him. cut to 3-4 weeks later, i start hanging out with an old ex,"tim", of mine who still loves me alot, alot alot...i care about him too but am still in love with "paul"...who has been keeping in touch with me. do i wait for "tim" , who i love, but has made it clear that he won't get back together with me? or try and grow to care about this other guy as much as he cares about me and move on?

Drea · Accepted Answer

Sounds to me like you need some YOU time. Obviously neither of them know what they want and why waste your time when in the end neither could possibly want to be with you after all. I dont mean to sound harsh but just being honest. Dont waste your time on someone who can't feel for you what you already feel because in the end you'll end up hurt. Go out have a good time and love YOU. Someone will come along. Everything happens for a reason. Good Luck and Hope I helped a little.

Anonymous · Answer

i think that you should follow your heart but if you want me to tell you exactly what i would do is i would go with paul because you love him and you shouldnt go for good enough you should go for as high as possible and it seems that paul is your man...try and tell him that you dont care that he cant give you what you deserve tell him that your love is enough



plz answer my latest question too

Anonymous · Answer

if paul says he wont get back with u den move on .... if u dont care for the other guy den dont hang with him all u doing is setting him up with false impression that yall might hook up again

wheeliebin · Answer

Hon, your too involved and immature, I cannot fathom your love life at all!

retire2day2003 · Answer

i think they both should be out and you should start anew

Totally confused...please help me?

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