Ok, I have a question. I have been seeing this guy around a lot and I rele like hem. I am in need of advice here. I think he may be gay. I mean hes a really nice guy. Hes kind to everyone he meets. I have never heard of him dating a girl. I have never seen him make contact with one. He has a lot of friends that are girls but he doesnt date. He wears lots of jewelry such as rings bracelets and a necklace. He always dresses in very nice clothing. He acts feminine to a point. When someone asks if hes gay all he ever says is no comment. His myspace is www.myspace.com/natemayfield.
do u guys think hes gay? Im so confused. And no, Im not a guy. I knew someone would ask that. Im on a friends account. Take a look or answer my question. I really need feedback from other people.
Anonymous2007-09-25T16:31:02Z
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He doesn't list his sexuality. Verdict: In the closet.
Most straight people aren't afraid to say they're straight.
Smiles...humm!!..I hate to start trying to answer your question by asking a you a question but {are you seeking a deeper relationship with this person other than friendship}?....Also by putting his "myspace" account name out for all to see has left him open for many curiousity seekers....hate mail...etc..Not quite sure what posessed you to do such a thing... Anyway ..I'm very open minded and have friends from all walks of life and his "no comment"..could be a red flag.As you didn't mention his age ..i'm assuming he is a young adult and his reply when asked shows that either he doesn't have time for such petty questions..or..he is a young closet case and lacks the maturity to come out and say ..I'm gay and proud....do you have a problem with it or would you like to remain friends!!... A true friend accepts you for who you are although you may not understand many of their choices in life....If you seek something deeper from this person i suggest ..may be asking to do lunch one day and have a one on one talk... Shelia E-mail..bigredmom857@yahoo.com
First off, I would like to say is; you never EVER give someone Pictures without prior permission. It's rude and very weird, cause there are some nut cases here.
Second off, don't worry about his sexual orientation. If he's ready to tell someone that he's gay, he'll tell people.
So, stop trying to figure out; if someone is gay or not. No one sexual orientation is another business.
Just be a good friend, and wait patiently. He may tell you first ;)
Let's see...hmm, he likes Barry Manilow and a lot of gay artists, he bleaches his hair(could be a surferthing;but, no waves in Kentucky) So what if he is! He looks like a nice kid, be his friend-go from there. My best friend in the entire world is gay-he and I have been friends for almost 30 years. We adore going shopping together.
If he's saying "No comment," he's probably gay or bisexual. You're best bet is to ask him, and say you're intrested if he's not because otherwise he might not tell you. I can't think of why he'd say no comment if he wasn't interested in the opposite sex only.