what can i do to improve my chances of getting invited to do things with other people?

some people said that i was too heavy so i am loosing weight , some people said i was overbearing so i just laid back and thought oh maybe they are right, some people said it is because they just do not have enough room so i understood that, and some people said that i invite myself too much so i laid back on that and now i still get no invites to do anything( i do invite people to do things with me)

SeoulGirl2007-09-27T17:57:37Z

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Whoa. You need to stop caring about what everyone else thinks. If you are too much of a chameleon and always changing for other people, what does that leave?? No one wants to be friends with someone who doesn't even know who they are. The best friends I have are those that have their own style, personality, likes and dislikes. I don't want someone as my friend who just keeps trying to please me. You gotta be yourself girl! Find out what movies you like, what interests you, what artists you like... you can bond with people over that. If you don't have anytthing that is YOU what will you have in common with anyone?