What would you do?

My bestfriend wanted to be my boyfriend but i told that i didn't think so. He told me that ever girl he talks to doesn't trust him and i am the only one who knows that the girls he talks to are just his friends, classmates or cousins. I know for sure what he is saying is true but should i take the chance and be his girlfriend.

Blue2007-09-29T08:19:19Z

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If the guy had the guts to ask you and you were allready best friends then give the dude a shot.

Jes2007-09-29T08:29:04Z

Have you ever had thoughts about dating him before this? Is there an attraction? If not don't do it, I dated a friend that I wasn't attracted to, all of the sudden he wanted to make the relationship sexual, I was kinda put off, it seemed gross to do that, and I broke it off, and we are no longer friends, don't date him out of pity tell him you are happy just being friends with him and you don't want to mess that up (because beleive me it will) If you answered yes to the above than go for it.

ces_princess2007-09-29T08:24:24Z

Can you see yourself kissing your bestfriend? If you are really bestfriend? Can you take the risk after the relationship, having gaps?

Anonymous2007-09-29T08:24:01Z

If you have feelings for this guy, then go for it.

If not, then don't lead him down the garden path, only to tell him later that it was never right between the two of you.

babydoll2007-09-29T08:19:52Z

no don't if it is a good friendship and you guys end up dating and problems start happening not only do u lose a boyfriend you lose a friend to so stick with being friends honey

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