Another email from the ex. Wife read it and wasnt too happy, this one was quite different she asked how my wifes and my relationship is doing. Do you think that is hint? I dont think it is anything big but my wife wants to kick her ***. I keep trying to tell her that she is only asking and it is not a big deal but my wife being the beautiful woman she is, wants to bash her head in and make it an ink spot. What do I do now?
mennonitegypsy
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stop being a prick.
Amazing_clarity
Unless the two of you have children then you don't need to be communicating with your ex. Its one thing if your wife was okay with her emailing you and your ex wasn't trying so hard to get your attention. She needs to remember she is your ex for a reason so think about it and move on. You need to send her a message and let your wife see it cause at this point your wife is angry and you don't want her doing something stupid over nothing . tell you wife its nothing and that you want her to see the email that you are telling her its over so you know that you aren't in any way encouraging this woman's actions
schmoo105
I think your current wife may be more upset by your reaction to your ex, than that of the action of your ex. Seriously, any woman can come on to a guy...but if he proves by his reaction that he is not in any way interested, and then reaffirms his affection and commitment to the woman he's with...most women would be fine with that. I would e-mail the ex back that this information is none of her business, and to only e-mail you if it involves something necessary (like children from that prior relationship). Show your wife how much you love her. Be happy that she wants (only wants to) kick her a**. You, as her spouse should only start worrying when stuff like this happens, and your wife could care less!
lyona22
Your ex is probably asking you those questions just to see if you'll say something like, "oh we're good, but such-and-such is bothering me...blah blah blah..". That's when she move in and be that "special listener". If your wife is reacting negatively to it, cut off contact with the ex. Your wife is more important than that other woman. I wouldn't even email back the ex and explain anything. It would only give her more excuse to email you back more often and insist it's "no big deal". So stop the emails NOW!
pinksugarblue
even if you dont find it a big deal, it is one to your current wife, and you should respect how she feels and cut contact with the ex. the ex is an ex for a reason, right? unless you'd like to keep adding ex's to the list, then leave the old ones alone. by the way, YES that is a "hint". i too would be greatly offended if an ex of my hubby's asked about our relationship. if nothing else, it just seems very out of place and none of their business.