we were nearly together for 4 years... i dont know how to make the fighting stop... shes the dominant one and its her way or no way..
its constant fighting, sometimes i argue with her just to wind her up.. but other times she can be soo harsh its not even funny.. sometimes its over really really lame stuff... and other times i never want to speak to her again... any ideas how to cut the fighting down? seriously we are worse than an old married couple
Anonymous2007-11-16T01:35:42Z
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Wow, your situation sounds dangerously close to a girl whom I messed around with who had the same situation. But anyways, well what does it lead to, who starts it and why even contribute? If you see where it is going, just back off. One of you has to be mature about it. If shes your ex, then why are you still even talking to her so much?
Am I missing something? You said Ex GF, what is there to fight about, do you still reside together? If you are no longer in a loving relationship and cannot be in a neutral relationship, you need to get away from each other.
That seems to happen quite a lot. It has certainly happpened in many of my daughter's relationships. She tends to move away and make a new group of friends