At my daughter's preschool today, there was a box of pumpkins outside with the following sign:
Free Pumpkin Adoption. Spend the Holiday with your pump"kin"
Do you think that is offensive to adoptees (or anyone else)? Or do you just think it is funny?
Just in case anyone might think otherwise, this is a serious question (well, semi-serious), certainly not trying to bait anyone (I really don't see how it would be viewed that way, but just in case). I do have opinions (those who know me know I pretty much always do), but I don't want to prejudice your responses.
Sunny2007-11-21T17:05:11Z
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Now I wouldn't think it offensive. In fact the 'kin' part is rather clever.
But as a child 'adopt', 'adopted', 'adoption' were all very loaded words to me because I always hated being adopted. I know it's spun as being 'chosen', but I was always ashamed of it.
Besides, unlike animals, pumpkins aren't BORN. They're grown. And even when I see 'puppies for adoption' signs, it has always implied leftovers no one wants.
I know it wasn't meant to be offensive, but I guarantee there was a little adoptee at that school who was a bit hurt or embarrased by it.
"The Jerk-offs". OH, this got here from a film, Nick and Norah's Playlist which was once the identify of a band. Michael Cera performs Nick. so, whilst you requested approximately a humorous, offensive identify, this got here to brain.
i took no offense to it, but then i'm not adopted, i'm a first mom. i don't know how an adoptee might take it.
in reading the other answers, i'd have to say that "Sunny" put it really well. she opened my eyes and believe me, i'm not for the adoption and all the propaganda they put out to use and abuse women like myself when we are vulnerable. if it hurt one person's feelings, then that was one to many. this was a great question for adoptees, in particular, and i think we got our answer.
I personally don't find it offensive, and agree with most others that it was just someone's attempt at being cute.
That being said, if someone does find it offensive, I would use this as an opportunity to talk to the preschool and educate them about adoption. I believe the more that we educate the people around us about things, the better off we all are.
I don't think anyone was trying to be offensive. I mean growing up i saw adopt this or adopt that signs. I didn't take it personally. Considering it is a school though, i would think they would be more careful. In this day and age you have to be so political correct.