What is the deal with people thinking...?

that they are in love with every single person that they date. I get so irritated when I see kids on here saying "i love him but he doesnt notice me" How the hell you love someone if he clearly doesn't even know a thing one about you!? Ugh! I'm 23 years old and I have only told two people that I love them and they have both been long relationships. I never told anyone when I was younger that I loved them cause I knew I didn't. Maybe this shouldn't bug me as much as it does, but I really cannot stand it.

Anonymous2008-02-13T22:17:45Z

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Lol. It bugs me too. But hey, at least you're not still in high school. It's all I hear all day long. It makes me sick. Girls my age can be pretty stupid. I haven't met one girl my age who is an exception to this. When I'm dating a guy and he tells me he loves me (after about 3 days to a week) I just say thank you. I won't say it if I don't mean it and I won't cheapen love by mistaking it for other feelings. I think that's why people do that. They don't know how to express their feelings properly so they call it love.

#1 Raider Fan2008-02-14T06:28:53Z

It doesn't bother me when people say that they're in love with someone that they know doesn't feel the same way because I'm sure they're very young and they do believe that they are in love. Real love comes when your mature enough to know that love has nothing to do with a feeling but it has everything to do with a person's actions and how well you know them. So someday they'll realize that what they were actually feeling was a crush. Don't knock them. That's a very innocent sweet time in their lives.

Molly2008-02-14T06:15:31Z

Yeah, you shouldn't care or worry so much about others. Just yourself.