Why do I feel so sad?

Saw my ex wife tooday and she said: That I was a wonderfull man and that if there were more men like me women all around the world would be so happy and that I was such an excelent husband ...........

This is the second time she says this to me, she said it two weeks after she kickd me out an dI found she was cheating on me. But damn it made feel so miserable and I have been crying all day. She made feel like crap.

Getting back together is not an option, looks like she is pregnant, claims tht does not love me, does not know if ever did and we are signing the divorce next week

2008-03-16T22:34:36Z

I can`t avoid contact with her we have a son together.

Anonymous2008-03-16T22:37:20Z

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Go fishing, then you'll feel better. It is good to change your focus sometimes. Just a suggestion, this site I saw for getting your feelings out. I think it is http://www.divorcefire.com I did it yesterday and it made a huge difference in how i felt today.

poo~poo2008-03-16T22:33:13Z

Try not to let this bother you because she whored around her opinion doesn't matter. Yes you are a great guy but she was only saying that to be nice guilt factor ect if she really believed that as selfish as she is she would be with you herself All cheaters are the same and don't realize how they hurt others all they care about is themselves One day you won't care anymore but i guarantee she will be the one crying then but like i say you won't even remeber her Been there done that you'll make it and have the last laugh.

Spooner2008-03-16T22:23:01Z

It sounds like she knows what she realizes she lost a great guy who probably wasn't her cup of tea. You are probably sad because you are coming up on the end of a chapter in your life. A new chapter is now beginning. You need to concentrate on that. Good luck.

Honey bun2008-03-16T22:23:27Z

You are bound to feel sad it sounds like this woman is playing with your emotions.
If I were you I would not answer her calls or meet her if she upsets you try and move on with your life.
You are too good for this woman you will find someone one day that treats you with the respect you deserve.
Good luck

Shandlan2008-03-16T22:22:10Z

Because you loved her and you still do. You feel sad because you wished your marriage could have worked. Its normal to feel that way but hopefully one day you'll met the woman that will love you and only you. People mess up and she realizes that she did and you feel sorry for her.

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