Have you ever thought about how you vote, with other women?
There's a cool website about women's votes, involving breast cancer and mastectomy. I'm older, more prone and only found 2 others with gray hair in the gallery. If you had to have surgery, would you tell? Would you stay in the hospital? Would you ask for help?
http://www.mylifetime.com/fun-games/games/dress/every-woman\-counts