Is there a format for working on your "dark" side?

A friend wants me to help her understand her dark side, improve what needs to be improved and learn to accept herself for who she is. I know there are instructions on helping her do this (I've done it myself and was greatly helped), but can't find anything on the web.
If you have any information that you might think is helpful or suggestions, please let me know.
Thank you in advance.
[And no she doesn't want to "know" Jesus or be born again. She's already gone that route and is now a Pagan....thanks, but no proselytizing.]

2008-07-02T18:56:21Z

She wants to work on understanding and changing those aspects of her personality that are negative. She wants to understand and accept the dark side of her personality as part of her.

Anonymous2008-07-02T15:54:42Z

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such formats may be there or make one of your own

Shilo2008-07-02T23:03:09Z

Wow, this is a broad area to delve into without the specifics. What did you do that was helpful for you? Maybe you can go in on this angle.

What, specifically, are the negative aspects of her personality?

Buffy2008-07-04T02:22:57Z

Sounds like something I'd like to do. -adds to watch list- Awesome question, I'll be looking for a real answer to give you. For me being greedy and taking two points, I'll give you a star.