What is normal after open heart surgery?
My mother is a diabetic and went in to the hospital with chest pains, after about a week they said she most have open heart surgery asap. We all hugged her, she seemed totally fine, before going under. Now its been almost a month, shes finally of the sedation. But she has had clotting, 5 strokes, and had to go on dialasis many times. All of this happened after surgery. Her eyes are opened and crossed because of the strokes. She cant talk or move still. She just started to move one legg. The docs wont say she will recover but wont say she wont. They wont let us know whats normal. Whats happening, will she ever really wake up? She can hear I know that she gets tears in here eyes when she hears us or when we say bye. Something went wrong, its been so long, shes 46 and the 70 year old man who went in for the same surgery after her is already home I saw that with my own eyes. I feel like shes so strong and can recover, but another part of me when i see her makes me feel she is really bad, and she has had 5 strokes in a month. Can anyone ever recover from this honestly? It really seems that anything they said can go wrong has went wrong! pLEASE HELP