Why is it that I always stop 5 minutes into it. It's happened with every guy except for my ex, 3 years ago... am I just not interested??
2008-09-03T07:45:25Z
I think about it, we make out, touch and it all feels so good but when it gets down to it, it's not that great. I always say "umm.... yeah... I don't want to do this anymore." I feel bad for his ego but I can't help it. I don't want to try all the dirty positions with someone when I can't even be satisfied with him just doing me... it doesn't hurt, it's not uncomfortable... I really don't know what it is. Perhaps i'm a lesbian?? I do get turned on at the thought of girls... but what if the same thing happens with a girl??? Perhaps I should try...
Well usually to have sex in the first place we are interested in doing it. You probably feel bored after 5 minutes. I used to be the same the sooner it would start I would want it finished. I felt like I had no pleasure in it what so ever and sometimes I still don't. I personally enjoy oral better than sex so I usually get my partner to give me oral until just before I go then we have sex and I find it VERY enjoyable because I am already reaaallly stimulated and mentally turned on. Try thinking of something you really like and try that... If not be adventurous! ;)
That can be hard. I have had that issue myself. I did think for a while that I was either bi, or lesbian, but really I was just with the wrong guy. Now that I am with my fiance, it feels completely comfortable with doing things I never thought of doing before. Just relax, try new things if you want, if you feel better with men than women, or more with women than men, that is your choice you need to figure that out for yourself.
I think I need more info. Why are you stopping? It's boring? Does it hurt? You don't like it?
If you've tried a couple times with a couple people, it probably just means that you aren't attracted to them. Or perhaps to guys at all? I really don't know. Maybe talk to your ex. Ask him what he did, and ask your current guy to do the same. Does that work?
Maybe you need to find ways in making it more enjoyable for you. Try other positions. Tell your current boyfriend how you feel and that you want to try new things?