I feel like i am totally missing out on something? What is wrong?
This is honest. this is not stuck-up. I don't think i am all that, i am just laying out the facts because i feel like something is wrong...
I'm not a bad person. people tell me i'm a really nice and cool person. I'm a great friend. I'm not skinny, but i'm not fat. I have green eyes and brown curly hair, which i think make me look nice. I'm not much to look at, but i'm not the person you turn your head away cause i am ugly.
Nobody likes me. ever. I've had a boyfriend or two, but that was in middle school. I'm now a sophomore, and nothing. I dress girlier, i am lighter, thinner, have boobs now and am a better person.
what's wrong...
2009-02-22T19:32:00Z
I know who i am... it's just different to hear it from other people. And i'm not focused on getting a boyfriend. it just starts to become apparent that nobody likes you when your friends have guys liking them all over the place and you're just there...
and i am focused on getting good grades. i'm like an a student...
lunatic25002009-02-22T19:07:13Z
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forget em if you look good ..then there is nothing wrong.......and usually in high school guys go for the sluts.......trust you dont wanna be that type.......you sound like the type that guys would have to treat right....stay that way..becuase all those guys chasing the sluts now wont want them later...we want civil nice girls like yourself when we mature an get older.....
Dont worry about it. A guy will come around when you least expect it. For now, do well in school and dont stress the small stuff. People go through high school and college without boyfriends and girlfriends a lot. Its not uncommon. You really dont want anything serious now anyway. For now, have fun with your friends. Concentrate on making more friends or getting closer with some of your friends and they may introduce you to a guy.
Stop focusing on getting a boyfriend. Don't blame it on your looks either. It's not just about looks. I wasn't fat in High School, but never had a serious boyfriend. But I had friends who wee heavier than me who did. You are still very young. Focus on getting good grades, and building your mind.
I really hate our society!!! It's ok to not have a boyfriend, when you fall for someone then fine-thats fantastic! But if you are always thinking about getting a boyfriend then it more than likely won't happen, or won't be a good relationship. Being single can be a blessing in disguise, it gives you the opportunity to get to know yourself and like yourself so that when you are in a relationship it works as you won't be insecure and overly paranoid. If you let it take it's course it will happen for you and it will be a great and strong relationship because you were comfortable enough to be single!
It means nothing. You don't need a boyfriend. You will know when you finally find someone. Just because no guys are pounding down the doors for you doesn't mean that you are unattractive. IME 10th grade is just the beginning of being old enough to date anyway.