ex-girlfriend, i think she wants more?

we been talking and visiting for about a month now. Each time i see her again i feel closer. I want to make a move but im not sure what to say because we used to date for three years and we were really close and iv already said everything to her, i dont no how to compliment her or make her feel good cause iv said it to her all before. Im also not sure if she wants to even date cause were so close right now that i feel i]she might think i only want to be friends since iv actually taken the time to really listen to what she has to say. Lastly she been over about 4 or 5 times and everytime we do something it ends up with her laying on my chest sometimes falling asleep. I dont no if thats her way of making a move or if she just feels comfortable around me, plzzz help,
sincerely,
confused

isis's brother2009-02-22T20:37:04Z

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for now and the rest of your life, communications is going to be
a major help in learning to get along. You are not a mind reader
and you can misread actions - even though they supposedly
speak loudest.
Truth is she may be confused also. Think of a series of questions
that might point in a direction. Like: how do you feel about..........,
what do you think should be done about..............?
Learn to ask leading questions, but not direct questions.

You will have to be tactful to get this relationship straightened out.
You can do it if you want to.