I need to really know do i need my mother in order to go to college...she says that i cant go to college with out her and i thought i could....i thought i only need her for financial aid...but she said its more than that...i really need to know becuase she doesnt want me to go... im 17 years old and i turn 18 in october...can i really do it on my own.....thx
Laurel
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Legally, once you turn 18 you can make decisions for yourself.
We can't tell from your question why your mom would say that. Is she having a hard time emotionally letting "her baby" grow up? Or does she have a good reason for thinking you are not the college-type? Because whatever you finally decide for yourself, (and you ought to be responsible for your own life,) it will have long-lasting consequences in your relationship with your mom.
Listen to her advice, but make your own decision. It is your life, not hers. All you owe her is respect, you don't owe her your future.
Do you have a high school guidance counselor? He/She would be in a better position to know what the real situation is and give some practical advice. If you really want to go to college and you need $$ but your mom won't pay, then you can talk to a navy recruiter. The navy has a higher rate of helping with college than the army. Or try the National Guard.
Anonymous
Why don't you call the admissions office, at some colleges, and ask for when you are 18, or if you can apply for when you are 18? Option; seek legal emancipation; see a lawyer (they charge for advice, too; ask how much, for either, first!).
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Of course you can do it on your own. Talk to your guidance counselor and school. Your mother is worried about her baby growing up.
crazykanne3221
my parents arent really helping me financially or ne thing. its hard but yes you can go to college without your parents or mom.