Im in high school and i notice that my friends seem to be in a sort of competition to see who can have sex first and with the hottest girl and stuff like this and for those who dont get much from women are almost like outcasts at my school...why is this? anyone can have sex
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They consider that having sex the soonest is a sort of accomplishment and achievement becacuse it makes them think that they look "cooler" now that they had lost their virginity as soon as possible.
But in the end, all that matters is that the partner you had sex with is someone that you're willing to spend the rest of your life along with your partner being committed enough to spend her life with you.
Though I'm living with my gf, I agreed with her that we shouldn't have sex not because we're waiting for marriage, but because so many idiots out there ruined how special it should be between your soulmate so we decided to not even do it all due to its degraded name in the new generation. Sex is just sex, it's not something that you should exploit and brag about.