Have you ever wished you could stop feeling so damn sorry for yourself?

Right now i am kind of getting annoyed with myself. I get so TIRED of feeling bad about myself. It's all because i feel like i have what i need. I actually feel confident about myself, unlike anytime before. I feel like i am what somebody is looking for. I'm a great person to be around, honestly, and i am not full of myself...I would be so awesome with self-esteem if one STUPID LITTLE thought would stop creeping into my head:

"You feel so good about yourself", it says, "and yet NOBODY likes you like that. Nobody wishes to date you."


DAMNIT. can't i feel good about myself without some stupid little voice bringing me down?

have you ever felt this way?

☆ Saz ☆2009-03-15T22:06:23Z

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I have often felt that way of feeling... In fact i feel what your going through every day.
It's not pleasant or easy to deal with...
I'm not going to preach to you and tell you this and that to 'try' and make you feel Better about yourself... All i can say is that it's a horrible feeling and everybody feels it at some point in their lives, some more than others...
Depression is then normally a trigger from the feelings (that's what happened to me)...But some how we have to keep going with a stupid false smile and pretend everything is ok.... And to be honest, why should anyone have to do that?!.

Hope your feelings now are washed away with some good sleep...My e.mail is open if you just need to ramble to an understanding ear, i'm a good reader and never judge!.
Much Love xx

Suze2009-03-15T21:35:54Z

you're defiantly not the only one. try working out - it'll help tune out that little voice in your head and you'll look better which will help bring your confidence level up

Music2009-03-15T21:43:51Z

I would rather actually be happy so I wouldn't have to pretend to not be feeling sorry for myself or pretending to be happy.

paran - the one and only2009-03-18T04:07:02Z

peope who fe sorry for themseves are loosers
dont be a looser honey , be confident and alwayz be sure of what you are doing