A judge asked a good question in court about a wrongful adoption?
She asked the lawyer for a couple who will not give a baby back to the natural father. If some one kidnapped a baby and kept it for a year to you cont to let the child live with the kidnapper because the child bonded with them? What would your answer be? His was of course not that was illegal. But what is it called when a father from the beginning says he wants to raise his child and they take off with the child anyways.
After 3 years my son is still fighting to raise his son. Just waiting on the judges to give their ruling. I have called it a kidnapping from the begining and that up sets some people. Finally a judge understands that you can't use best interest just because the post adopting couple hids the child with help of the adoption agency. I'm telling you father's in jail have had more rights than what my son had.
No news story on this story because the father in this story has no drug charges, DWI or prison time. He's to clean no dirt.
SJM- I read that report and find it really up setting that we would live in a world where if some one saw your baby and wanted the child would be able to keep the child if they stay hidden for a year or two. Just explain to me how the child won't feel that his or her life was messed up by the kidnappers and have fears that when they get older it might happen to them. As with the case I'm talking about they want to blame the father because for the damage to the child just because he wanted his child just as a mother would want her baby.
This is going to be a landmark case no matter which way the judges order it. If the father get's his child (the child know and see his father almost every month and for the summer) Then just maybe these adoption agency and post adopted parents will step back and do what is right.
If he doesn'r get to raise his child then the adoption agencies, CPS and everyother agency will be able to use the bonding thing to strip the rights of the natural paren