I'm 15, and it seems like so many guys are so shallow. One of my friends that's a guy always teases me about having a small chest (I wear a B) and it really gets to me. My boyfriend assures me he likes me exactly as I am. I just don't feel comfortable with my body. I asked a couple guys, and they all said that the boobs were one of the first things they noticed about a girl. Are boobs really that important?? If a girl has a pretty face and an overall nice body, with small boobs does that bug most guys?? Just looking for some opinions :) Thanks.
?2009-05-16T10:34:32Z
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Dear Miss, This question always upsets me. It is not that you are asking, it is that you were compelled to ask by social pressures. Please forgive the guys for thier ignorance. A woman has to be veiwed in her entirety. She is a "package deal" like all of us. I am happily dating a woman with an "A" size. I do not separate her from her breasts. She is a whole woman. Date a guy who appreciates your mind first and body second. I happen to think my Lady is beautiful with her smaller breasts. Yes, some morons may be attracted to breasts when they are so young, but with age, those larger breasts are a headache. They are going to sag, clothes don't fit well, sports are more difficult, and anything more than a handful is a waste to a man. Not to mention those big busted teens now are far more likely to be overweight later in life. Who wants that? Be proud of your Bs and know the guys will be chasing you far longer in life than those larger girls. Many of us guys are truly legs and butt men.
Boobs are nothing. Some boys think it's to play around with it's actually to feed a baby when you have a baby. Don't worry about it. If your flat chested it's better then having big boobs that you can't handle. Some woman HATE their big boobs they think it's a bother. So don't worry about it. If your boyfriend cares for you he won't care...
As a guy, I can say that yeah, "boobs" do add to an appeal to a girl, but they aren't THAT important. I mean sheesh, when I look at a girl, I don't stare at her chest 24/7, I look into her eyes and try to see what's hidden in that vast wonder of the mind.
Personality trumps looking like a bimbo any day, and that's the Klokinator's opinion. (Ask anyone who knows me and you'll see I always say this BTW)
You're still way to young to worry about chest size. Just be comfortable with yourself as you are. Let your personality shine through and you'll be far ahead of the game. BTW, I personally prefer small boobs. When they're too big, they just get in the way. My wife was a 36B and I thought that was perfect!