Theres a new kid at school?

So theres this new kid at my school. He sits with another new guy as opposed to in a big group. I've been wantiing to invite him to come hang out with me and my friends but I've been to nervous togo over there. It doesnt seem to bother him so I've been delaying it. But I've been watching him (cuz hes kinda cute :P) and every time I look over there hes looking at me. And I've seen him talking to the other new kid and then the other one looks over at me too. Plus, I usualy avoid eye contact, but with him I have no problem with it. Do you think this means anything that he keeps looking at me? Should I just suck it up and go talk to him? Or an I just overthinking it?

T2009-08-29T09:50:10Z

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Being a new kid in school is pretty hard, especially finding new friends. I would go up and talk to him, and if he's shy, give him a little bit of time before asking him to go hang out with you and your friends, but if I were you, I would just go up to him and the other new kid and start a casual conversation such as "How do you like the school so far"? If he's looking at you then he probably does think your cute. Best of luck though :)

Anonymous2009-08-29T09:36:54Z

You're slightly overthinking it, but its pretty obvious he likes you. In most situations guys feel the need to make the first move, but he's new so there's no way he ever will- would you risk personal rejection when you're trying to make friends and fit in?

Invite him to something casual you and you friends are doing, so there's no pressure on him. Maybe l something like going to the shops at lunchtime or doing something after school. That way if its a group thing you can get to know each other without any awkward dating type stuff.

?2009-08-29T09:35:40Z

i definitely think you should go and talk to him, but only when you feel like you're ready to...who knows, you might make a new friend. as for the fact that he keeps looking at you, there is a BIG possibility that it means something...he might want to approach you, but he is also too nervous...if or when you do become friends, then this is probably something you can look back on and laugh. but i know how much courage it takes to approach a new student...just give it time.

Weyland-Yutani2009-08-29T09:36:53Z

Maybe he likes you too? I don't know why you're nervous but I don't suppose it's my business, but don't be shy, just sit as close as you can to him, wait for a while and try and start up a conversation, for example, if there's a ginormal line at lunch, say something like "Yeesh, that's some line huh?" and take it from there. Good luck!

?2016-05-28T16:29:08Z

just make a scene at school and tell him that is a psycho and his weard and u feel sorry for him, and if he tryis to fight u just let him touch u first and then kick his ***, but be carefull if he tryies anything dangerous and it will be better i u also have something close to u,like a broum stick or something like that. becouse it will be in front of people he will probably feel shame and leave but if he tryis to act crazy wait as told u, like that u will have the upper hand that u were protecting youself and nobody can do anything to u, its your right.

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