How can I possibly...?

Explain to my fiance my random mood swings and spouts of depression (even though I've told him countless of times about them) when he already has these problems in a more severe case and the medicine he's taking only enhances his mental unstableness for other bodily problems he has.. (And sometimes I forget that and don't know when to stop till he snaps.) I can't not be ok around him because he can't handle it. What do I do? I get to the point; like right now to where I just can't take it. I have no one to talk to and I've slowly started to cut again... What do I do? I don't want to leave him because I love him. How can I handle myself and him at the same time? I just took a xanax and smoked a cig to calm down and ended up puking. Nothing came up but my stomach was that unsettled... I can't sleep... I don't know what to do...

Azuka2009-11-21T20:58:02Z

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This sounds like a serious case for seeking therapy and counseling. I'm particularly concerned that both you and your fiance have serious symptoms of depression and instability. I think you really need to put marriage plans on hold until the two of you can achieve the stability that will sustain the pressures and stresses of married life.

Best of luck

Anonymous2009-11-21T21:00:19Z

So you know you have problems and arent treating them. and then attribute your behavior to your mans moods? Maybe go for counseling together and get mood stablizers.. see if they help. Xanx is a tranquillizer.. not a mood stabilizer..

?2009-11-21T20:57:15Z

I don't quite understand the question.
but it sounds that him, if not, both of you need a change of medication if thats making things worse.

Anonymous2009-11-21T20:57:33Z

Go get medical attention right away. if you need to go NOW

Infinity B2009-11-21T20:55:46Z

idk