What do you think of waiting for someone to give you a date for a party?
A friend and I are wanting to give another friends' daughter a graduation party. We have been friends for years and do allot together. However, the friend who has the daughter is quite status conscious. She actually asked the other friend if she would have a party for her daughter. Then today, when asked about the date she said, "well, there's going to be another party (for the special kids) and she didn't know the date yet of that party so she couldn't say. After my friend told me this I called the other friend and asked her what would be a good date to see what she would say (because I couldn't believe it). She said well, she didn't know because that other party was either April or maybe even March! WTF? So, what would you do and what do you think about this so called friend? I feel like we are chopped liver here and our party is going to take second place.
EDIT: Thank you Ms I and Ms Mat for your responses. You both were on target. The friend with the pool really doesn't want to have a party for other friends daughter so I think she will let the other friend know and soon. The daughter may not be "invited" to the special graduation party after all so we will see what happens. Whichever way my friend w/pool wants to go I will help. It's her decision. I have always known friend #3 was a snob and social climber and she has yet to learn her lesson.