Why are older guys interested me, but not boys in my age group?
I'm fifteen, a sophmore in high school, & I have four 21-25 year olds wanting to go out on a date with me. I find it quite alarming & don't wish to date them, simply because the age difference is too extravagant now...
Why don't buys my own age interested in me? Is it my looks? My personality?
Looks: 5'9 red hair brown eyes thin
Personality: shy kind intelligent (4.0) athletic (I play 4 sports)
Here's a picture of me just incase it is my looks: http://i268.photobucket.com/albums/jj35/taylor_yepp/mee-1-1-1.jpg
I'm not posting this to be vain, I know I'm not stunning or nothing spectacular, but I'd like some opinions on why older men are interested in me and not boys in my age group..
Thanks.
Dylan2010-02-12T20:11:05Z
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From what I see you intimidate the boys your age. You are the perfect example of a woman with just about everything one could ask for. The problem is that boys your age do not know how to deal with that. They are scared that you are far to good for them.
Older guys on the other hand can look at you as a bit of an equal. You seem to describe yourself as a much older and mature person. Guys in their early 20s are attracted to both youth and a more mature personality and stature which you clearly have.
Just tell these guys that you are more interested in guys your own age. You will find one. I know guys that would move the earth for a gal like you. Count yourself lucky.
In my opinion you could pass for a 17 year old and around the age of 17 is when many girls begin to really notice the attention of older guys. It could be that you look older to them and you are tall which can also indicate that you could not be a minor. Guys you're own age might not be interested because of the height thing...HOWEVER....dont know why i capped that... it most likely has to do with your body languege. Depending on how you carry yourself you will attract different people and your body languege could be attracting older men. They could think your more mature or possibly young and "willing." Its a complex issue but just to be fair, many men out there are pervs and want to be with a minor girl so really its not a rare occurance at all. be safe
I don't think it would be your personality. It's probably your looks. You're a beautiful young girl and guys your age are probably intimidated by that. Guys older than you wouldn't be. Take it as a compliment.
Because boys in your age group are retarded. Also, you look older for your age. If I saw you going down the street, I'd look twice too. I wouldn't know you're underaged. Guys are pigs. We accept that.