Do you forgive or forget?

When someone hurts you really bad do you forgive or forget or both or none?

2010-02-13T04:47:03Z

P.S: what if they are dead now

?2010-02-13T04:37:36Z

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I have a good memory, I can't forget; but I forgive.

Anonymous2016-04-11T11:19:06Z

Forgiveness is good bit I just forgive and ill never act the same around them my mom used to hit ne when I was 3 and I don't trust her I do anything behind her back so I just forgive but I also forget!

reedeeyees2010-02-13T04:13:49Z

I usually easily forgive but hardly forget.

If I forgive someone, and if she/he don't do anything that need my forgiveness in some times (maybe 1 month; 1 year, ... depending of what it was) I even forget that too!

I forget more than other people in general! Cause I really believe in this: "All human being make mistakes time to time"! So if I can convince myself that it was just a mistake; I easily can forgive and forget it... But if I feel that it was not a mistake; I even may don't forgive easily.

Hoopoe2010-02-13T05:00:48Z

I forget everything ( happy and sad things ) very soon , it's a bad habit that I forget soon..
I forgive but sometimes there 's no need to forgiving because before forgiving you forget it..
it happened to me a lot when someone hurts me and my feelings and I forget it soon , then I saw her/him and I was really relax ( because I forgot that issue ) but I noticed a kind of embarrassment on that person and then I got it , it was because of the issue that I forgot and he/she not..

Anonymous2010-02-13T09:39:45Z

1, if they come back tome and say they are regretful about what happened, I might forgive! i try to at least!

2, if they continue, I don't forgive nor forget! I answer back :D

3, if they get away, and I feel like they were unimportant, I try to forget!

4, If I still feel I love them, and they have always been important to me and they really bothered ne ... I can not do anything! :-|

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