what do I do? I bumped Into a guy I have know for five years Now he is calling me to go out to coffie?
.I first met him in some classes I was taking for work five years ago.I have seen him from time to time and we said hi. Now he is calling me to go out to Coffee.How do I say I only want to remain friends with out offending him? I am in my fifties and still haven't learned to do this tactfully. I can't just say Im just not that into you because that would be to assuming.why is he doing this now .He appears to be twitter paited he never was before.
It's not just a cup of coffie. I went for the cup of coffie with him.a week latter he called again.I was in a hurrie and couldn't tallk./the first time he asked me he called back 20 minets later and said he couldn't wait until we met to talk .he apeared twitter paited.