So my boyfriend and I dont get to see each other very often because we go to different schools and have busy lives with sports and family, but I do see him at church on sunday and youth group on wed. I am so happy when I'm with him. and then when i leave, like the moment i walk out the door, I already miss him. and by the time i get home, my heart feels like its aching. idk its weird. whats going on?? am i too attached?? or am i ok?? i dont understand...
JoJoeh =Delight2010-03-17T19:05:12Z
It seems that have you have indeed created a "love attachment" to your boyfriend. You would not probably feel this way if you two were just friends. It is normal to feel this way about someone so close as a 'boyfriend' becuase you both have decided to become more than friends and that makes the both of you feel secure and normal; the bond is even stronger since you can not connect with each other as often as you'd like. Of course if anything were to happen, you will most certainly feel this way about another man in your life, but for now you do not understand these feelings and that is normal, 'just fine'. In most cases, this feeling could also be so strong becuase he is feeling the same way you are. Just be sure that your emotions do not interfere with your lifestyles too much.
I don't think you're attached. You just really like him and since you don't get to see him a lot, when you finally do your emotions are probably just really strong. I would not worry.