How can I end this relationship and get everything I want after my husband cheated and is sexually abusive?
what if when you had sex he hurt you so badly your were crying from the pain but he wouldnt stop? Now he is saying that we should make a contract saying he is going to buy me the DD boobs I've always wanted and butt implants but I would have to be silent about the fact that he cheated and continue being married to him so he can get his papers in the U.S. We also opened a bank account so I could open my hair business, I specialize in hair products. But I am extremely unhappy and the fact that he was accused by the girl he was cheating with that he sexually harrassed her its even worse than just cheating. But I think she is just doing that because he has a lot of money, he even said she was fighting a girl that was looking at him when they went to a bar, she was also very mad that his wife (me) was not black so he is saying its a racist thing and he said he might pay her of . I know however that he would be capable of raping someone since he has forced sex several times before when I am mad at him but I just let it go because I ended up enjoying it but Ive never cried from it. This weekend he hurt me so badly from having sex I was bleeding. i dont want to continue this relationship but Im thinking in business terms that he owes me. I want a bright future for me and our 2 year old son. what do you think? How can I ensure I have a great future without being with him? also im a student and dont have any income. no one is there to help me as my parents and my friends have cut me off because I keep going back to him. heeeelp!!