when and how do you tell the girl you're dating you have herpes?

Chemical Goldblum (hope this helps)2010-09-26T19:16:19Z

When you're ready for her to run away screaming.

?2010-09-26T19:16:58Z

definitey before you become intimate.. i would tell her once you are sure she is super into you and you her. but definitely before any kind of sex.