Family Member Marrying Someone After two Weeks & Doesn't Speak English?
I have a Brother in Law, who is marrying this girl after knowing her for two weeks. She lives in Vietnam, and hardly understands english. He flew to Vietnam recently. After the second week of knowing her. He put a ring on her finger. He is 36, and she is only 18 years old. He swears he is not doing this for his needs. Yet, he wants to have kids fast. He was also dating someone right before he flew to Vietnam. I have tried talking him out of doing this. But he is hell bent on this girl. She is also 3 years older than his teenage son. I told him I will not give him moral support, or attend his wedding. When I see pictures of these two together. I am literally sick. Because, she looks 13 and he is so much older. It's like he is so insecure, he would rather marry someone who doesn't speak english. He has these high expectations of her. Yet, at the same time he is robbing her of her youth. What do you all think? How can I get past this?