what does it mean when ur boyfriend talks to ur best friend more than u do with him?

i ben dating my boyfriend josh for over two months.. and since the night we went uptown with my best friend.. he added her on facebook and she accepted... and they talk all the time... i went uptown with my friend gary one time and i saw that my best friend was uptown with my boyfriend.. i was behind them the whole time.. even tho they never did anything... i trust my boyfriend and my best friend.. but i got a feeling that they r sneaking behind my back... what should i do????

Anonymous2011-02-28T09:17:22Z

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That's a conversation you need to have with them. I used to be that friend, I was best friends with both my girl best friend and guy best friend, they were dating, but me and him hung out a lot more than her and him did. It was never a big deal to us we were just really close, and enjoyed each others company...however she got extremely jealous and told him that if he cared for her at all we needed to stop talking to each other. Unfortunately because he was a horny guy and I wasn't offering those aspects of a relationship they kept dating lol but because of that they had a trust issue, he broke up with her and we are friends again. ANYWAY, my point is that you need to be honest and talk with both of them. Don't spy or suspect just talk.