Women, do you find this funny...?

I was searching Everybody Loves Raymond and came across a forum for the show.

One of the topics caught my attention. I never watched the show enough or in enough detail to notice, but the topic listed several, SEVERAL episodes where Debra abused Ray.

-Elbowing him in the testicles and stomach.
-Pushing him into a "chest" (like for clothes)
-Telling Robert to punch him
-Saying that she's going to get his mother to "smack the crap out of him."
-threatening to smack him.

And several episodes she hit him, called him names like idiot, pathetic, and many other occurences.

And all of this is portrayed as comedic, deserving toward Ray etc.

And even more frightening is women replying to this topic/thread were saying how Ray deserved all of that b/c he's lazy and "good for debra" and how this abuse toward Ray is some of the most funny things on the show.

They said its OK bc Debra is so much smaller. So if you're smaller physical abuse like elbowing his testicles and twisting his finger is OK? Huh?

If a spouse regardless of gender is not pulling their weight you talk to them about it and/or leave them. You don't physically abuse them in response to verbal arguments etc.

People will reply with they're acting and its a show. Well ill get to that irony in a moment.

However its the "real" womens responses to this that is the disturbing part.

Again, its acting and these actors don't really behave this way in real life. Patricia Heaton I'm sure wouldbt really elbow a husband in the testicles or anything else abusive her character does. Patricia knows its acting.

The irony is yet women watching at home actually become brainwashed by this crap, that its ok to physically abuse their boyfriend/husbands when they're angry etc. Societal and feminism brainwashing has clearly gotten to womens minds.

It OK to women to slap men bc they're smaller? That is sick.

No wonder female arrests has doubled since the 80s for aggressive violence. Just look how female characters are portrayed and clearly this fiction brainwashes women.

And not all women are smaller either. There's PLENTY of bigger women and those skinny emo guys. My friends ex wife is 5'9 and weighs 200 or 190. I'm the same height but only weight 150. And that 150 doesn't consist of any muscle or "toned-ness" either. Yet it would still be ok to women for a bigger woman to slap me if I "deserved" it. Very sick and mentally ill is what this sick feminized society has done to women.

Anonymous2011-03-08T20:33:25Z

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alright, you know what?? i think its hilarious! dont even tell me about the things that guys have to live through thats quality television right there! this is such an antifeminist world and i will tell you why-- its "weird" if you ask a guy out first or make the first move... we have to deal with creeps out therewith the threat of overpowering and hurting us... we have to worry about getting pregnant!... we have to get a monthly gift from miss mother nature that isnt so pleasant... we have to go through labor... we have to stay home and clean because somehow that stupid label has been put on us... ok? so dont go saying that kicking guys in the nuts being funny gives us ANY feminist advantage because NOTHING is FAIR! ok? and if you cant put yourself in our shoes WHICH YOU CANT! then i dont want your opinion. --good day!!

rilling2016-09-10T04:50:24Z

Men, on the grounds that I cannot stand ladies and continually bought along side guys extra. Plus my humorousness is pervy-sarcastic and I make females angry with out knowing it appears lmao. But the men do not look to brain :P