Ferret Fighting - Help!?
Recently I bought a deaf kit - eight weeks old - as a companion to my older, year and a half ferret. Understandably, the older one was a bit afraid at first, having not seen another ferret in a year. After a few days, they finally had this moment and began to play, and the bigger ferret even groomed the little one at the end.
However, the fights started almost immediately after. My older ferret caught ECE from the younger ferret and was quite weak for a while, which enabled the little baby kit - small enough to fit into the palm of my hand! - to put the whoop on her. However, she is recovered now and I have been trying to let the ferrets fight it out and get this thing over with. They seem to play reasonably well when they are let out together, except for occasional fights, and their cages have been side by side for a month. However, if you put them together in one cage, it's a huge fight! My older ferret will not fight back offensively and only tries to get away from the baby, who pursues her relentlessly and bites her face and neck. I have tried putting bitter apple spray on my older one's neck and just step away to let them fight it out, but my older ferret looks so sad and will jump at the edge of her cage to try to get away from the baby.
Finally this evening I just decided that I had to be tougher - the fights haven't resulted in pooping, pulled hair, or blood, just a lot of squeals, hissing, and retreats. They have finally stopped fighting continuously, but my older ferret seems totally exhausted and even depressed. If she tries to move or rearrange her position to sleep on top of the other ferret, they hiss and begin to fight again.
Please. I don't want to cause my older ferret depression by having her constantly whooped by the new comer and "put out". But I also don't want to get rid of the baby, I feel that to give her away would be wrong.
I know deaf ferrets can sometimes be meaner, but I can't stand for my first ferret to suffer. Please help. What can I do? Will it take time or is it just hopeless?