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i ben dating my on and off again bf for a month.. and this is our 6th time dating... but we broke up for a couple of weeks and with in those weeks we would hang out with friends and we would hold hands and hold each other.. but while we were broken up i was tring to find a new bf cause i was getting tired of the on and off crap... but our relationship is stable and going good.. but theres other guys in the picture... i like this guy named aaron.. but i herd hes a real player.. so idk bout him... and then theres jarin!! ugh! hes simply amazing.. even tho ive known him all my life over the past month i began to have feelings towards him... we ben talking bout getting together and all this.. he told me he wants to b my rebound for when me an my bf break up!!! does this mean he rlly cares or he just wants me?? i rlly dnt no wat to do.. i like all 3 boys.. but the funny thing is when i got back together with my bf both aaron and jarin both said they were going to ask me out.. so i felt like a total *****!! well jarin and i talk all the time and aaron i think he just uses me... but its cool.. as long as i get to b with him.. not saying im a whore or anything.... i just love jarin and my bf alot and i dnt no who to choose... PLEASE HELP ME!!!!

                                                                                                        CONFUSED LOVER

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

see how it turns out with your boyfriend. Apologize to the other guys if they do think you are a *****, but if they don't accept that, you aren't meant to be with them anyway. Then see how it goes with your present bf and if it doesn't work out and the other guys are actually being truthful, they will be waiting and will be there when you need another bf.

Anonymous · Answer

Simple just let it go...Ya been playing this on & off game far to long it's best that you deal with your past issues & he does the same until ya both can come back on common grounds.There's some resolved issues between ya & if it keeps going then God knows what may happen.You need to pick one & make sure it's not becuz of who got what & who's sex is better you better think bigger than that like who is gonna be there for me when I'm sick or hurt?That's what you need to worry about.

sashtou · Answer

> i was getting tired of the on and off crap... but our relationship is stable and going good. <

So, if it worked and your relationship is going good, it wasn't crap then, was it.

I keep having to re-read what you wrote to try and translate what you wrote from your Morse Code into English, and it is bothering my eyes.

If you have feelings for all three, then change nothing, simply 'Date them' and see how things go. And later with time, your mind will tell you what to do.

Sash.

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